Pride: A Self-Destructive Attitude (Sermon: Luke 2:1-20)

Christ displayed an attitude of submission and humility. Yet, instead of following His example, we often exhibit pride--an attitude that will always lead to self-destruction. Proverbs tells us: "When pride comes, then comes disgrace,but with the humble is wisdom" (11:2). Proverbs also reveals that, "Pride goes before destruction,and a haughty spirit before a fall" (16:18).

Here are some reasons I believe pride is so self-destructive. First, it keeps us from recognizing our weaknesses. Some have mistakenly understood humility as looking down on yourself, but true humility involves not the discounting of ourselves but a accurate estimate of ourselves. Pride causes us to overestimate our abilities and character. The second reason that pride is self-destructive is related to the first. Because we over estimate who we are, we often enter a state of denial about our personal needs which keeps us from taking the action we need to take.

For example, a husband gets into an argument with his wife. Both say things that are inappropriate to the other. Yet, because of his pride he cannot admit that he did anything wrong in the situation. Therefore, he is unwilling to apologize or take any steps toward reconciliation.

Or consider an alcoholic who believes she has everything under control. "I can stop anytime I want," she says. Yet the truth is, she can't go a day without alcohol. It is absolutely controlling her life. As a result, she will not seek help.

Perhaps the most critical scenario is the person who because of pride cannot admit that they have sinned and need forgiveness. Because of their pride, they may never repent and receive God's forgiveness. What a tragedy to be without Christ because of pride.

Yes, pride has a high price. Toy with it long enough and it will cost you everything. Christ was humble; if we are to be like Him, we must repent of our pride.